tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post7434044883835488260..comments2023-08-07T15:01:26.348+01:00Comments on BabberBlog: WobbleLewishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-35433187595605926492012-05-23T16:00:22.732+01:002012-05-23T16:00:22.732+01:00actually mrs l here, sorry lewis. just read your ...actually mrs l here, sorry lewis. just read your blog post and wanted to say thanks, as having a particularly bad day today. xLewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-43344310152841997302012-05-22T20:37:43.788+01:002012-05-22T20:37:43.788+01:00Those days are tough when you just want to scream ...Those days are tough when you just want to scream at your baby "WHAT DO YOU WANT" that's when teamwork with your partner becomes so important to give each other a break. Glad you got through it, no top tip exists to make it any easier though I'm afraidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-82028300988190434202012-05-22T11:18:19.642+01:002012-05-22T11:18:19.642+01:00two things you need to know. 1) it's normal to...two things you need to know. 1) it's normal to feel like this sometimes, 2) it never stops - sometimes even now that DD is glowing example of beauty, kindness and gorgeous young teen, i still want to get away from her or even kill her. Luckily these moments pass, the love floods back and we move along....because (as you know) children are amazing :-)Tattooed Mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05756762569823259874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-6070580480895810772012-05-22T11:05:16.250+01:002012-05-22T11:05:16.250+01:00We all have those days. They come now and again bu...We all have those days. They come now and again but they also go away again and it's important to remember that. Lovely that Mrs L recognized it too. <br />Stay positive :-)Anoop Singh-Bestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-75182482922729523852012-05-22T10:09:57.523+01:002012-05-22T10:09:57.523+01:00Mate, everyone has said it already and everyone me...Mate, everyone has said it already and everyone means it. We have ALL been there. Don't beat yourself up about it, don't be hard on yourself. In fact, everyone still IS there some days - good days and bad ones. <br />xHanhttp://www.mamabearwithme.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-34829335939805337232012-05-22T06:24:10.725+01:002012-05-22T06:24:10.725+01:00Vent away Mr, we all feel like this sometimes. Don...Vent away Mr, we all feel like this sometimes. Don't beat yourself up about it. OH struggled at the beginning too. Heck, we both did. DD cried all night for what seemed like a century but was probably only a few weeks. Qudos to you for being so involved.Michelle Reeves - Bod for teahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04719695398854744448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-79780253941207762012-05-21T22:40:56.773+01:002012-05-21T22:40:56.773+01:00I intend to keep blogging, it's been very usef...I intend to keep blogging, it's been very useful to me so far!<br /><br />Thanks for reading, whoever you may be :-)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-11578133689328371242012-05-21T22:40:05.573+01:002012-05-21T22:40:05.573+01:00Thanks, it's comforting to know it isn't j...Thanks, it's comforting to know it isn't just me!<br /><br />Thanks for reading and commenting.Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-15936153322836377292012-05-21T22:38:11.630+01:002012-05-21T22:38:11.630+01:00I'm buying a portable pressure washer tomorrow...I'm buying a portable pressure washer tomorrow. I will cherish it as a celeb cherishes their handbag dog.<br /><br />Ta for reading :-)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-15187315754042291562012-05-21T22:36:32.730+01:002012-05-21T22:36:32.730+01:00Glad you liked it, I feel better for having writte...Glad you liked it, I feel better for having written it :-)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-51449203317937455412012-05-21T22:35:36.749+01:002012-05-21T22:35:36.749+01:00I must admit, I'm somewhat looking forward to ...I must admit, I'm somewhat looking forward to the selective memory I'm going to have in a while!Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-66443098878990775562012-05-21T22:35:02.648+01:002012-05-21T22:35:02.648+01:00It's always comforting to hear that it was the...It's always comforting to hear that it was the same for others and it usually goes away! At the time it can be hard to remember that he's not the only child ever to have screamed like this. Perspective is helpful!<br /><br />Thanks for reading.Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-71356282913432035572012-05-21T22:33:17.675+01:002012-05-21T22:33:17.675+01:00Thanks. You're right, he's already won us ...Thanks. You're right, he's already won us back over today (well, me anyway, I don't presume to speak for Mrs L!)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-89070519775689941002012-05-21T22:32:20.633+01:002012-05-21T22:32:20.633+01:00We are not alone it seems *whistles x-files theme ...We are not alone it seems *whistles x-files theme tune*Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-54333998241770575982012-05-21T22:31:40.237+01:002012-05-21T22:31:40.237+01:00Thanks, that's exactly what it was, and it fel...Thanks, that's exactly what it was, and it felt great to do so.<br /><br />Cheers for reading :-)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-74929361625296645062012-05-21T22:30:11.814+01:002012-05-21T22:30:11.814+01:00Next weekend it's my brother's wedding, so...Next weekend it's my brother's wedding, so a whole family to pass him around while I sneak off to the bar ;-)Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-8319096397273116782012-05-21T22:29:13.093+01:002012-05-21T22:29:13.093+01:00Cheers dude, I'm feeling a lot more positive n...Cheers dude, I'm feeling a lot more positive now, and it was a Good Thing to write it down.<br /><br />Thanks for reading the wafflings.Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440823297493425971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-33526488140072364752012-05-21T22:18:07.078+01:002012-05-21T22:18:07.078+01:00Don't give yourself a hard time for feeling li...Don't give yourself a hard time for feeling like this. But don't listen when some say it gets harder as they get older either. Someone said that to me and I was horrified! It doesn't get harder it just gets different! The good days always outweigh the bad! <br />Keep blogging about it though as it always helps to get it off your chest.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-10358172015696891682012-05-21T20:35:50.598+01:002012-05-21T20:35:50.598+01:00This is exactly how my husband felt in the early d...This is exactly how my husband felt in the early days. In fact, he really suffered and visibly withdrew at first. So hats off to you that you've made it this long without having an off day. You're doing a great job. You all are.Molly @ Mother's Always Righthttp://www.mothersalwaysright.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-43554967426968192692012-05-21T19:23:54.864+01:002012-05-21T19:23:54.864+01:00Never leave the house without a nappy/wipes/change...Never leave the house without a nappy/wipes/change of clothes/sandblaster. Otherwise, you're doing a grand job, boyo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-13274827338503456572012-05-21T18:05:14.274+01:002012-05-21T18:05:14.274+01:00I love this post, I can't speak for everyone b...I love this post, I can't speak for everyone but I know for sure I have felt like this on more than one occasion with both children. Hoorah for honesty! <br /><br />P.S I am also stupid and have been punished many times. Poo explosions, hungry screams, cold foot due to lost sock... Everytime this happens I break out in a sweat. I'm still alive (barely) and so are they. <br /><br />We aren't perfect, we're parents. <br /><br />xZarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14716909743500813517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-23206303574491736802012-05-21T17:06:17.695+01:002012-05-21T17:06:17.695+01:00All of the above really, it can be very difficult ...All of the above really, it can be very difficult at times. On the bright side a bit further down the line and you'll only remember all the fun bits, it gets easier.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-28265303586694680952012-05-21T17:02:31.660+01:002012-05-21T17:02:31.660+01:00What you just described almost EXACTLY the first 3...What you just described almost EXACTLY the first 3 to 4 months of our daughters life was. My partner and I were exhausted, panicky, felt guilty for being unable to help our baby and guilty for wanting a break from her. Nothing helped. We hit about the 3.5 month stage and things started to improve very gradually. Now in month 5 she is smiley and happy, a very different baby. I wrote a post about it on my blog, called coping with crying. It isn't a solution but just things I'd tell myself to make it through the day and keep sane. You'll get there. It does get better, I never believed it, but it absolutely has. Stay strong and do take a break when you can,don't feel guilty about it. You are doing your best, I think you should be very proud. Babies are hard work, crying babies are harder work. Take care, I hope it gets easier for you soon.Marilynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17722213398343161686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-80927296684014421302012-05-21T16:38:10.900+01:002012-05-21T16:38:10.900+01:00Vent away! You are not alone. We feel it from ti...Vent away! You are not alone. We feel it from time to time where we just want time out to switch off completely and then promptly feel guilty as it feels like we've failed in some small way. There are always moments where it gets too much and lack of sleep definitely makes it much worse. We soon forget these moments though and remember all the things they do that make us love them more and more everyday. *hugs*_Mushypeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17888420773382927728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4256773225141600058.post-25328437397313940182012-05-21T16:31:25.883+01:002012-05-21T16:31:25.883+01:00Feeling your ":(" Happens to me a lot to...Feeling your ":(" Happens to me a lot too.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09622441892958864311noreply@blogger.com