"We named all our children after perfumes we like, Coco by Chanel, Princess by Vera Wang and now Dikenwe, you know, because we couldn't call him DKNY"
Oh dear. What a terrible abuse of power. Thankfully, he'll only have to live with it until he's sixteen, when he can change it via Deed Poll. Or maybe he'll love it, it's certainly different.
But even without the benefit of having a parent who is clearly mental, many people end up with names they're not keen on. We're keen to avoid that, which is why we've been having the name conversation now for nearly twenty weeks. Because we want to like the name we give our baby. We also want our baby to like his name, once he's old enough to have an opinion on it.
It's difficult though, isn't it? Without realising it, I've been going through my life marking names up with little tags: John is too common. Luke, Leo and Liam would all be alliterative with the surname. Isaac is already taken by a close member of family. I was bullied at school by someone called Jason, and someone else called Antony. Colin sounds too old. Matthew is too biblical.
Mrs L has a separate list of names which she wouldn't want to bestow on the boy, some of which I quite liked.
We want something a bit different. But not too different. Something with no negative connotations from people we've known, or people from history (not too many Adolfs around these days, wonder why?)
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It's difficult though, isn't it? Without realising it, I've been going through my life marking names up with little tags: John is too common. Luke, Leo and Liam would all be alliterative with the surname. Isaac is already taken by a close member of family. I was bullied at school by someone called Jason, and someone else called Antony. Colin sounds too old. Matthew is too biblical.
Mrs L has a separate list of names which she wouldn't want to bestow on the boy, some of which I quite liked.
We want something a bit different. But not too different. Something with no negative connotations from people we've known, or people from history (not too many Adolfs around these days, wonder why?)
The conversation isn't over. Won't be over until the day we register the baby. But we do have a short list now. Eventually we realised there aren't going to be many names we can say, without any reservation, that we're 100% happy with, so we went for the closest we could get. There are five names on the list, I'm not going to write them here, but I will write our concerns:
Options one, two and three: they're nice, safe, popular names. But that's the problem, they're a bit dull.
Option four: is shared with a current politician, whose policies we don't like. We'd like to avoid the inevitable "is he named after...?" questions.
Option five: is of French origin. Neither of us is remotely French. We're a bit worried that it might be a touch silly.
When the little guy does make an appearance though, I'm sure all our concerns will melt away. We're not going to love the boy because of his name, but because of what he is. A rose by any other name would smell as sweet, and a son by whatever name will be amazing.
Options one, two and three: they're nice, safe, popular names. But that's the problem, they're a bit dull.
Option four: is shared with a current politician, whose policies we don't like. We'd like to avoid the inevitable "is he named after...?" questions.
Option five: is of French origin. Neither of us is remotely French. We're a bit worried that it might be a touch silly.
When the little guy does make an appearance though, I'm sure all our concerns will melt away. We're not going to love the boy because of his name, but because of what he is. A rose by any other name would smell as sweet, and a son by whatever name will be amazing.
